YOU as a personality are not in competition with any other personality simply because is not another person on the face of the earth like YOU.
YOU are not like any other person and can never become like any other person. YOU are not supposed to be like any other person and no other person is supposed to be like YOU.
Stop measuring yourself against their standard. YOU are not them and can never measure up. Neither can they measure up to yours – nor should they. Once you see this simple, rather self-evident truth, accept it and observe it, your inferior feelings will vanish!
From the book Psycho- Cybernetics with a few changes!